HELP!

So I have not been on this for a while. One, I have been really busy i just moved into a new house so ive been busy packing moving stuff and work. Two, I just CAN NOT figure this blogger thing out..lol i thought it would be as easy as a MYSPACE page lol but i just cant get it. So, with that being said i was wondering if you girls have any tips, or websites that help you out. I cant even post a comment up. I want to put a banner up of some type. So if you girls can please let me know of anything that would be awesome.. thank you =) hope to hear from you.